I’m sure there are many guys out there who are confused about whether they should pay the bill on first dates with women. You’re there to have fun with a woman you’ve found attractive. There’s no need to make it more complex by adding friction between you and her.

You’ve probably heard other dating tips saying you shouldn’t pay for a woman when you’re out on a first date. But think about that for a moment. Don’t you feel cheap doing that? What do you think your date is going to see in you with what you’re doing? She’s probably thinking you’re not the kind of guy who’s going to fulfill her needs of having someone that can provide for her. Dang that is painful!

I’ll show you an approach that will solve this issue.

What I’m about to share is fool-proof and will allow you to get a handle on this problem and never have to decide who gets to pay on first dates. Here’s what it is…

Whoever initiated the get-together… PAYS. It’s that easy.

Being on a date with a woman is just like other social gatherings. Let’s say for example you invited your buddies out for some fun. When the bill came, what likely ended up happening was you went ahead and took care of the entire bill. So how come you’re doing things differently when it comes to women and dates? Don’t even entertain the thought of splitting the bill. What if your date couldn’t afford her half of the bill? No joke! This happens every so often with younger women who may still be in college with no consistent source of income.

And she’s not going to think that you’re just like every other guy just because you paid for her. in fact, she’s probably thinking you’re the kind of guy that has the situation handled which allows her to just enjoy the magic carpet ride with you.

At this point you may be wondering what you could do to protect yourself from women that just want to take advantage of you financially. And I hear you. Don’t do what I’m about to reveal and this problem won’t be an issue.

Stop taking women out to extravagant dinners on a first date!

You’re the man, you take the lead. If you don’t take her to that fancy lobster place you won’t end up having to pay for it. And the simple fact that you didn’t take her to a place that’s expensive actually gives you a better chance at taking things to the next level because she won’t think you’re trying to buy her affection. You also won’t be stuck on a boring dinner date that has nothing interesting going on.

Think of other things that you can do with women.

For example, getting coffee then going for a walk in the park is a great idea for a first date. You’re not going to go broke shelling out money for two cups of coffee totaling a measly 10 dollars. Truth be told, if you’ve chosen a quality woman, there’s a good chance she’ll invite you next out time and even pay for all of it.

Now if you think this is good stuff and you want to learn more about how to become the kind of man who magnetically attracts women even if you’re not tall, rich, or handsome, go check out my other topics such as: how to date a woman and get any woman you want